Thursday, December 10, 2009

What five things should a husband do to make up to get back together with his wife?

It is a friend of mine.What five things should a husband do to make up to get back together with his wife?
1) Tell her that her needs (emotional, spiritual, %26amp; physical) are more important than yours. And that you will do everything you can to fulfill her needs. **trust me on this...I am a woman


2) Tell her that you love her more than the air you breathe. And that she is your everything.


3) Let her know how much she brings into your life (joy, love, warmth, happiness, and friendship)


4) Let her know that ';you miss your best friend';...which should be her anyway.


5) Show her, with all sincerity, all the above stated....Actions speak louder than words...and mean more.





Good luck...I wish your friend the best.What five things should a husband do to make up to get back together with his wife?
Be totally honest with his wife (truthfully answer any and all of her questions).


Acknowledge his behavior and/or misbehavior.


See that he is 100 percent responsible for all his actions/ reactions/ inactions.


Immediately and completely STOP whatever he was doing to become estranged from his wife (so, for example, no more contact of any kind -- ever -- if he was involved with someone else).


Commit wholeheartedly to his marriage, working to rebuild trust and intimacy and doing so with professional (couples) counseling.
Here are 4 mind games:





#1 - Ignore your ex. There is nothing that will trigger the emotions of your ex more than ignoring his/her attempts to reach you. Instantly you become mysterious, and your ex will wonder what you're doing that is better than talking with them.





#2 - Date a friend of your ex. Is there anything that could get your ex more hot under the collar than dating a friend? Word will get around and will get your exes mind spinning.





#3 - Change your wardrobe, your scent, looks, and get active. This one might fall into the more general advice category, but if you make an effort to change things up, you become more attractive, and you'll change the perception of yourself that you send out, especially helpful when you run into your ex.





#4 - Thank your ex for the break up! A great piece of reverse psychology. You're sending out the message that you are grateful for the breakup, that you learned a lot from it, and are better off. Your ex will have a hard time not having a strong emotional reaction to this.





These are just four tips, there are tons more. If you're a guy like I am, there's one tricky guide in particular filled with this stuff.
1) Tell her you're sorry.....as big and bold as you can (play/sing her a song, send a note with flowers, candy or something else that she likes).





2) Show her you're sorry. Do something that you don't lke doing, but that she likes for you to do.





3) Tell her again





4) Show her again





5) Beg.
1. Be patient. Let her have some space to think


2. Let her know how he feels


3. Be there and be ready when she is.


4. If you've done something wrong apologize genuinely. Do it well and move on. Don't go overboard with presents and garbage either it just looks needy as well as repetitive like hearing im sorry im sorry im sorry over and over again completely loses meaning just like I lost you for the middle of this one ;)


5. LISTEN. When you talk listen to what she wants and needs not what you want or what you think she wants etc and DO IT actions speak louder than words.





not in any particular order.
Go to counseling with her.





Do whatever it takes to regain her trust.





Prove to her that you can be faithful and truthworthy again.





Treat her like a Queen.





Own up to everything wrong he has done.
Depends on the situation, really, but if he's wronged her he must demonstrate that he understands what he did that was wrong and he must show genuine remorse and must show good faith to not do it again.
Act like a jerk.





Act like a jerk.





Act like a jerk.





Act like a jerk.





Act like a jerk.








Women LOVE that. You see, a jerk is ';confident';.
if cheating was involved there is no apology good enough and they should not be taken back.. other wise say sorry... take them to the fanciest dinner... rub there back.. give lots of fourplay to show u care
Forget it.

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